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How do I Stop Feeling Guilty?

All emotions act as signals, a “red alert” in response to external stimuli. Guilt arises when we feel we’ve violated our ethics or morals. Can you identify “guilt” as the emotion you’re feeling, and understand what it’s in response to? My clients express remorse over mistakes, hurtful actions, or inaction. Guilt also stems from failing to meet expectations—whether from parents, oneself, or others. Not all guilt is the same and may manifest differently for each person. A key part of letting go is understanding where these feelings come from and acknowledging their impact.

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How to Stop Over-Apologizing

Have you ever found yourself saying "sorry" a little too often, even when you haven't really done anything wrong? If so, you're not alone. Many of us have a habit of over apologizing, which can sometimes dilute the meaning of our apologies or, worse, undermine our self-esteem. If you find yourself frequently apologizing for things that don’t warrant an apology, or if you feel compelled to say sorry as a way to avoid conflict or disapproval, it's essential to address this behavior.

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